Don't sweat the small stuff.........now that is not true in my opinion. It's the small things that make all the difference in life, sure major events get more attention and are remembered longer......but the small stuff is maybe more important than the big stuff. Something like holding the door for someone, lending someone a buck, just simply saying hi to someone hell......just acknowledging existance. I have noticed that the people who do these small things are the absolute friendliest and genuine people. I see people who would be considered nice.....but only act nice to get ahead for there own personal gains or to impress someone. It doesn't work like that. I saw a group of young ladies today in my lunch who I thought were pretty nice people, wear a little too much makeup and take themselves way to seriously, but I got nothing against them. Well these girls were getting some drinks and opened up the cooler for some guy I guess they wanted to impress or something, so they opened it for him. When he was done some other girl was already reaching in and grabbing a drink......and they closed it on her. She had her hand in, they could clearly see that she was still looking around and they just slammed the freezer door on her......they didn't even grab it when it fell after the girl yelped. They just turned around and began to talk again, giggling and reaching for makeup. I don't know why, but that made me so angry. It's the little things people, I notice these things. I can really tell someones character by how they act around everyone......just not one or two people. The meanest people can be nice to a few people, and get away with it. That pisses me off so much, you wouldn't even believe it. I now realize people are blinded very easily in life, they just can't see how people actually are. It's hard to get out there each day though, be yourself and see people who are completely fake,mean, and assholes get ahead of you each and every time. It takes a lot to be yourself in a world where it would be easier to just be someone else. You can't be someone else though, you can just be you, if you can accept that others will too......eventually. You will find who your real friends are damn fast when you dump all your notions of being cool, trying to fit in, and being someone else. Face it folks, you are stuck with you for a pretty long time so you better get comfortable and used to the way you are........because while you may change the big stuff, you'll never be able to dump the small stuff. It's the small stuff that really matters and what makes you what you are. Never try to forget that, or you'll end up a very lonely and sad person.
Thought Of The Day: Snickers
Song Of The Day: System Of A Down- Roulette


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